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The Gentleman’s Code

Effortless doesn’t mean without intention. It means thoughtful, communicative, discerning, and respectful of the space we share. These guidelines are here to create an atmosphere where we can both relax into the moment and let the experience unfold exactly as it should. Now with the formalities out of the way, lets immerse ourselves into each other.

  • When meeting in public please leave donation in an envelope either in a gift bag (I adore lingerie) or a copy of your favorite book you recommend I read.

    In private it should be displayed in clear view on a table or the bathroom counter, to avoid any uncomfortable moments.

    My listed rates are not subject to negotiation. Attempting to do so will be considered distasteful and could substantially tarnish our relationship.

    If at any moment I am made to feel uncomfortable or unsafe, I may end our time together with no possibility of a refund.

    My rates reflect my time, presence and companionship. Anything that may happen in that time is a private decision between two consenting adults.

  • Please arrive at our date freshly showered and teeth freshly brushed. I will do the same for you.

    If you can't beforehand you may freshen up in our Incall/outcall bathroom but be aware this will be taken out of our time together.

    As a neurodivergent I am sensitive to strong odors. Neutral or natural colognes may be lightly used.

  • Screening is 100% non-negotiable and I will not see new clients without it. This is to ensure my comfort and safety as a companion. If you cannot understand this concept then we are not a good match.

    Your real world information is required including a selfie next to your I.D (you may blur sensitive information) and your LinkdIn profile. I do not accept references as a form of screening.

  • All of our contact will remain behind encrypted methods of communication. Your privacy is of utmost importance and your information will never be shared.

    This level of privacy applies to our shared moments as well. No photography or filming allowed under any circumstances.

  • I do not participate in review or reference culture. Our time shared together is special and deserves to remain as such. Please refrain from commenting about our private moments in public as I will do the same.